Getting your man to take more of an interest in you is something you might desire. If you do you are not alone. Many women actually feel more lonely in a serious relationship with their man than they did when they first met. Has the intense feelings you first felt for each other disappeared? Has boredom replaced the excitement between you and your man? Not to worry. For most couples this is a completely normal process that relationships go through. Sure there are couples that seem to be able to effortlessly keep the spark alive but look closely and you will began to see some of the things they do to keep their relationship headed in the right direction. If you want your man to take more of an interest in you try the following.
Never take your man for granted: This is so easy to do and must be avoided at all costs. Your man needs to feel needed and appreciated and when he feels that he is being taken for granted he feels neither needed or appreciated. You can lose a man this way! So make sure you find little ways to let him know that you are aware of him and all that he does for you. Make him his favorite dinner, buy tickets to his favorite sporting event and then go with him. Anything you can do to make him feel indispensable and loved do and soon you will have find him wanting to get to know you better at a deeper level.
Take the time to listen to your man: Sometimes this can be hard to do because lets face it you might not be that interested in many of the things he wants to talk about. Talking about last nights game, the newest trucks on the market or the latest power tool might not be your idea of a fun filled evening but if he starts talking about it you need to listen. A very important thing to remember is that when your man talks to you he might not want your advice or for you to solve a problem for him. He just wants to visit with you. Get in the habit of listening to your man and watch how your relationship blossoms.
Spend some time with your man: In some ways this goes along with not taking your man for granted and listening to him. Spending time with your man shows him that you care about what is important to him and that he means something to you. He is much more likely to do things you want to do if you take some interest in his activities. Nothing says I Love You more than spending time with your man. It validates the relationship and makes the relationship much more likely to succeed.
Something to be aware of is that relationships are a two way street. There is give and take on both sides. If you find yourself doing the above but he refuses to listen to you or spend time with you then it might be time to rethink the relationship. Chances are however that your man loves you, wants to spend time with you and will go out of his way to do what he can to make your relationship the best it can possibly be. After all you are special so why wouldn't he want to be with you.
